We’ve detected a problem with your cookie settings
Merrithew™ uses cookies to help give you the best possible user experience. Please enable cookies to continue

The Ties that Bind: Instructors and Clients

Dieter Menzel and Bianca Bolissian at the Merrithew™ STOTT PILATES® Studio

When Dieter Menzel walked into the Merrithew™ Corporate Training Center (STOTT PILATES® Studio) in Toronto seven years ago, he had no idea that he was at the beginning of forming what would become long-lasting friendships.

His doctor, also a client at the Merrithew CTC, had referred him there to help with his lower back pain. It was there that he met ITs Bianca Bolissian, Tania Serrano and Sarka Osecka.

“If you want somebody to promote the benefits of Pilates, it’s me!” Dieter says, with a laugh. When he first started working with Bianca, Tania and Sarka, he had trouble driving a car because of the pain in his back. “Now I can drive for two hours, no problem,” he says. But though the physical aspect of Pilates has helped him enormously, it’s the personal touch that has kept him coming back for years. “Fitness instructors must have an engaging personality, be competent and have empathy,” he says, noting that these qualities were lacking in the places where he previously went to work out. When Instructors are empathetic to the client, they notice things like mood, and can adjust the workout accordingly, says Dieter, which is important in keeping up the client’s morale and sense of value. Walking into a friendly studio can make all the difference between continuing with an exercise regimen and letting it slide, he says. “You need to want to come.”

Now, it’s not unusual to find Bianca, Tania, Sarka and Dieter enjoying a coffee together at a nearby café, or having a meal at a restaurant. “We’ve become friends,” says Bianca. "Dieter's great. He has a fantastic outlook on life."

How to Host an Appreciation Event
Paying it Forward: Growing Healthy Kids
5 New Studios We Heart
The Mindful Benefits of Gratitude
Giving Back: The Core Compassion Project

Leave a comment

Show oldest on top


Leave a comment
  1. AngelaArno | Aug 09, 2016
    Good to see you in perfect shape Dieter. Great friends you have. We came as your relatives and met them and immediately were incorporated in the group. It shows what all those are missing who pretend to be too busy too old too injured too unathletic too far away from the next studio.
  2. Laura Fitch | Jul 15, 2016
    So glad you enjoyed the article! 
  3. FullCircleStudio | Jul 14, 2016
    That was so heartwarming to read. It's incredible how strong the bond between a client and instructor can be. We definitely share that bond with many of our clients here in Vancouver!
    The latest in mindful movement, delivered right to your inbox
    Join 8,000+ readers and get Merrithew’s posts, articles and valuable resources. Unsubscribe at any time.
    Please wait ...